Last night I received a question from a woman asking me: How can you be so positive?
I was flattered by the question and responded immediately: Because I love to have fun in life!
Having fun in life is much more important that not having fun. Having fun means that I can find meaning and purpose, having fun means that EVERYTHING gets easier to deal with, also when I arrive at very tough situations. (Believe me, I do!)
So to actually spark positiveness in life it’s important to actively spend time with the thoughts giving you energy. Don’t focus on pushing the negative thoughts away, just highlight the positive ones and make them bigger consciously.
A quick strategy I use to highlight what I call my best friend thoughts is to respond to them.
So for the above example of my thought: ”I love to have fun in life!” I simply say: ”Oh, yes I love to have fun!”.
It’s that simple. Doing this very easy action I highlight that thought for myself and immediately start to condition my mindset in the direction: to have fun.
Start highlighting your positive thoughts and you will soon realize how you are in control of shaping your mindset to be a growing goldmine.